Most women find - themselves drawn to men who have burning passions in their lives. (Women dread ending up with a passionless man who spend their evenings - watching sports on TV while downing endless six packs of beer) It would be great if your passion was something powerful - and romantic like writing the great American novel or becoming a famous composer but for our purposes even a much more mundane - passion will do and do nicely.
Perhaps you’re really into photography, dancing or - traveling. Anything that involves creative pursuits or the world of high culture would be especially impressive. Stamp and coin - collecting are common but sadly rather boring passions that are unlikely to stir any emotional dreams in a - woman. (Precious few women attend stamp or coin shows)
Avoid passions that have anything to do with - sports (most women don’t have the “sports gene”), television or drinking. Never mention traditional male bonding activities that - you pursue with your male friends. This is a special no-no as many women have been involved with men who have focused too - much of their attention on their male friends – an extremely frustrating situation for any woman.
Above all, be prepared to discuss your passion and your - dream. If you’re not asked, volunteer the information during an early date. Any woman will be impressed. Very few men have - clearly defined dreams or even short term goals for that matter. Tell her how totally alive you feel when you’re involved - in your passionate activity. Try to create a vivid image in her mind of where your dream will one day lead. Your goal is to present - her with an infectious ambition that will get her dreaming of the two of you sharing your passionate goal. Remember, enthusiasm is infectious.
If you’re successful, your common goal will fan the - flames of love in her heart and at the same time give you both a long term goal you can work toward – together.
Of course don’t directly mention her role, just be sure you - leave room for her to paint herself in. Don’t forget that as you are speaking her brain is racing along trying to find an opening. If she becomes even slightly interested in your description, she’ll be much more likely to fall in love with you.
Perhaps you’re really into photography, dancing or - traveling. Anything that involves creative pursuits or the world of high culture would be especially impressive. Stamp and coin - collecting are common but sadly rather boring passions that are unlikely to stir any emotional dreams in a - woman. (Precious few women attend stamp or coin shows)
Avoid passions that have anything to do with - sports (most women don’t have the “sports gene”), television or drinking. Never mention traditional male bonding activities that - you pursue with your male friends. This is a special no-no as many women have been involved with men who have focused too - much of their attention on their male friends – an extremely frustrating situation for any woman.
Above all, be prepared to discuss your passion and your - dream. If you’re not asked, volunteer the information during an early date. Any woman will be impressed. Very few men have - clearly defined dreams or even short term goals for that matter. Tell her how totally alive you feel when you’re involved - in your passionate activity. Try to create a vivid image in her mind of where your dream will one day lead. Your goal is to present - her with an infectious ambition that will get her dreaming of the two of you sharing your passionate goal. Remember, enthusiasm is infectious.
If you’re successful, your common goal will fan the - flames of love in her heart and at the same time give you both a long term goal you can work toward – together.
Of course don’t directly mention her role, just be sure you - leave room for her to paint herself in. Don’t forget that as you are speaking her brain is racing along trying to find an opening. If she becomes even slightly interested in your description, she’ll be much more likely to fall in love with you.
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